“Opportunities can be very obvious that it constantly tells the mind.You know the obvious chance to get to know someone even on a much deeper level. Or simply a new job for you. Or a chance to enjoy sky diving. Yet the mind just says, don’t worry it’ll come around the next time, it’ll present itself the same way to the same people. Then if it’s not happening, we convince ourselves about how ugly we are for missing that beautiful train of opportunities.”